By way of Tom Hood over at the MACPA, I learnt about Chris Brogan and his concept of Three Words. I live a life of an endless to do list and this can lead to a very scattered way of thinking or feelings of failure as,no matter how much I do, there is always so much more to get done. I read both pieces and was struck by what a great idea this was. Having three words gives a theme to the year, so to speak, the essence of what is going to be important in the year to come. Almost like a theme song to the year – a lot will happen during the year but throughout these three words will give the mood.
Change: We live in a fast-paced, ever changing world. It can be very easy to feel overwhelmed and intimidated by it all and, as a result, resist change by clinging to the familiar. I aim to embrace change and not be swept up by it. This will demand a bravery or fearlessness (or, perhaps a combination of the two). Instead of being changed, I plan on being the change. This will mean doing new things and not being afraid to fail. I hope this means learning new things like coding, advanced techniques in excel and skiing.
Discover: As I step outside my comfort zone, I look forward to a year of discovery. Through discovery will come growth and creativity. As a kid, I remember an aunt telling me that she had never met anyone who asked as many questions as I did. I am not going to be afraid to ask a lot of questions – this is how you learn a lot of things. I am going to discover how to use things like Hootsuite and Evernote (in an effective way). I am going to try out new restaurants, new cities and, hopefully, new countries. I will delve deeper into this financial forensics thing – I shall be the Quincy of Forensic Accounting.
Motivate: Last year, encouraged by a friend, I joined a running class. The drill, during our second class, was to run out for 20 minutes, turn around and run back in a little less than 20 minutes. I ended up running next to a woman who I felt had a good pace. I decided that I would be good if I just stuck with her. At moments when I felt I was flagging, seeing her keep up her pace pushed me to do the same. At the end of the run, I turned to her to thank her for keeping me going. At the same time, she did the same. Toward the end of the class, she asked me to be a rabbit for her, to help her attain her goal time for a half marathon that I was not running. I was honoured that she felt that I could help her reach her goal. During the race I was both nervous and excited. I had to maintain a pace that she could handle and, at the same time make sure she was running quickly enough to make her time. I also had to motivate her to keep going and keep her from wanting to strangle me. As she crossed the finish line with time to spare, I think I was happier than I have been after a race that I have run. Later in the year, I had to go in to hospital for a few days and she came to visit me with a gift in hand – a soft toy rabbit. Yesterday I signed up for another running class (my new friend is in the class too) and we ended up running with a group of new inspiring running buddies. This year I intend to maximise the power of motivation; it is far more powerful than I can imagine. It is to be a year to motivate, and be motivated.
I am sure that, yet again, it will also be a year full of running stories.
I should put my three words – change, discover, motivate – to music so it can be a theme song I can play as I do this 2013 thing.