2014…. New Year, Three Words

ImageLast year was the first year that I officially gave my year a theme song, so to speak. Via Tom Hood, social media, learning and sticky note aficionado, I learned about Chris Brogan and the concept of Three Words. When I studied Latin, in high school, we were taught about the magic of the number three – fewer than three can seem too little and more than three can feel like too much. Three is a number that just works. Veni, Vidi, Vici. Signed, Sealed, Delivered. And my words – Transform, Pursue, Collaborate.

Transform: On the Saturday before Superbowl in 2011, I went to the emergency room with a stomach ache. Who lives that life? The life where your stomach packs in before the party even begins. My then boyfriend and I were about to have our first Superbowl Party – the themed cake had been ordered, we were due to pick up our 6-foot long sandwich and the guests were coming. Instead I ended up spending that Sunday and a few more days in a hospital room. While I was there, my aunt came to visit and brought me a beautiful flowering plant. I brought it home, the flowers died and all that remained were the leaves.

As 2013 neared its end, my now husband and I talked about making big changes to our lives, to our work, to our play. Sometimes we find our lives take unexpected turns, sometimes we get busy and never get around to recalibrating and sometimes we lose track of our wants and desires. We decided that we were going to dedicate ourselves to rediscovering our loves and transforming our lives accordingly. This morning, on New Year’s Day, I awoke to find a flower blooming on the hospital plant. Three years of nothing but leaves, but it seems my plant has decided to transform as well.

Pursue: Sometimes there is nothing scarier than a goal. What happens if you don’t attain it? No one wants to be a failure; failure sucks. This fear of failure is incredibly good at keeping us in a state of atrophy, a comfort zone of sameness. This fear of failure can keep us from evolving and it can keep us from fulfilling our goals. In November 2013, I ran the New York Marathon. Watching runners pass my block as they ran the New York Marathon is the reason that I started running distances further than three miles. Back then and since, there have been many moments when I have wondered whether or not I could run 26.2 miles. Several years in a row, I would start training for the marathon and experience a setback that kept me from running the marathon. During the heatwave of 2013, I found myself unable to make it through 12 miles and I was convinced that there was no way I would make it through 26.2. And with all of that going on, I still aspired to run a Boston Marathon qualifying time of 3 hours and 45 minutes. I set this goal, even though the only other marathon I had run, in 2008, I had run in 4 hours and 50 minutes. In 2013, I did get to run the New York Marathon and it was one of the most incredible experiences of my life. I ran the New York Marathon in 3 hours and 51 minutes, short of my 3:45 goal and it was still amazing. Though I did not attain my 3:45 goal, I found that I achieved many things I did not even know I was aiming for. More than anything, I discovered how wonderful it is to have goals and to pursue them. Even if things don’t turn out the way you hope, you tend to end up with things turning out in fantastic new ways that you may not have imagined. In 2014, I plan to pursue goals and dreams – I may not pursue them fearlessly but I plan to persevere, even through fear.

Collaborate: Nothing that I do of any substance can I say I have done alone. There is invariably a support team of one kind or another. I have people that believe that I can and I have people that will help do what I cannot. I have people who will speak sense to me when I am being irrational and I have people who will urge me to be crazy when I am being too rational. I have strangers who smile and give me support and I have friends and family who do the same. It is easy to take this for granted and to perhaps believe that I can be a one-woman superhero. I plan to remain mindful of the power of synergy, the strength of the network and the force of the team.

Last year my words were Change, Discover and Motivate. This year, the theme song is different – Transform, Pursue, Collaborate – but the music is still thumping. 2014 will be blooming awesome!

What are your 3 words?

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